Elements You Might Want to Include When Planning a Funeral Service

Death is an inescapable part of life. When someone you know and love passes away, the mourning process can be an emotional rollercoaster ride. Saying goodbye is difficult, but planning a funeral service can help. Funerals have been around for thousands of years and are a way to celebrate the life of a loved one, honor their memory, and provide closure. Planning a funeral service can be daunting, especially if you’ve never done it before. In this blog post, you'll learn about some elements you might want to include in your funeral service.


A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that honors the life of the deceased. It can be delivered by a family member, friend, or clergy member. A eulogy should capture the essence of the person, highlighting their achievements and significant moments in their life. It’s a great way to acknowledge and remember the deceased.


Including music in a funeral service can provide comfort, evoke emotions, and capture the essence of the deceased. You can choose a song that has special meaning to the family/loved ones or a piece of music that the deceased enjoyed. There’s a range of music available to choose from, from classical to contemporary, so select something that feels right to you and the mourners.


Readings at a funeral service can be religious or non-religious and can provide comfort to mourners. You can select a poem, scripture, or something that has special meaning to the family. Readings are a great way to acknowledge the grief that the family is feeling.

Personal touches

Including personal touches in a funeral service can make it unique and special. This can be a slideshow of photos showcasing memorable moments in the deceased’s life or a display of personal items that represent their interests/hobbies. Personal touches add meaning to the funeral service and allow loved ones to feel closer to the deceased.


Following the funeral service, it’s a great idea to have a gathering (with food and drinks) to honor the memory of the deceased and allow mourners to come together. These gatherings can be in a variety of settings, such as a restaurant, home, church, or community center. It’s an opportunity for family and friends to support each other and share memories of the deceased.

Planning a funeral service can be a daunting experience, but it’s an opportunity to celebrate the life of a loved one and provide closure to those grieving. Remember, it doesn’t have to be perfect, but it should reflect the personality and wishes of the deceased. For more information on funeral services, contact a professional near you.

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planning for a funeral while coping with the loss

How do you go about planning a funeral for someone that you love when you are trying to cope with the loss? I have had the unfortunate experience of having to go through this twice in the matter of two short years. First, I lost my father and about 18 months later, I lost my mother. I learned a lot during the planning process for my father that helped me get through the process for my mother. Everything that I learned about planning for a funeral while coping with the loss is included here on my blog to help you get through some of the most difficult days of your life.